I would like some clarification on what has done more harm that good – staying away from Holidays and Religion or the holidays and religions themselves?

Yes, people are always going to be offended by something. I’ve been trying to become detached.. From a spiritual standpoint, detachment from outcome is good. In this way I don’t force anything and can accept what is. When I’m detached (which does not mean unfeeling) I am un-offended. When I am detached, I have no need for you to be other than you are. Another spiritual concept is that nothing has meaning but what we attach to it.

Speedy! Awww, thanks! I wish I volunteered and did charity work – I haven’t done any so far. I do plan to volunteer at a local charity before year end – a friend invited me to go with her to a local church that provides many charitable services. It’ll be good. I hope to make it a habit!

Thanks for sharing your feelings and change of feelings about the holidays. Being reborn, that’s apt! You’re definitely part of the Geometric Progression of Love with your blog ! If anyone is cranking out love it’s you!

I am flattered (wowee!) at being your favorite writer. I’ve seen the other blogs you read – some great “competition” out there!

Jeff: Well…one thing I learned in a book by Anthony Robbins was, “Ask the right questions.” and when you ask the right questions, you put yourself in a more resourceful state. So one question to ask yourself is, “What is good about my situation?”

I don’t believe in bemoaning my fate. Bemoaning is not fun and makes my eyes puffy.

The holidays give me goose bumps. This is strange, because there was I time in my life when I resented them. It’s easy to throw out a ball of reasons…. capitalism, shopping, time consuming, etc. The true reason I rejected the season was my own “inner self” driven by denial and resentment.
I have to tell you, my sobriety has caused a re-birth in my life. I see everything with new eyes, and find myself thankful for what I have, not bitter for what I lack. This ties in with the whole “giving and loving” season of Christmas (for me it’s x-mas).
The key is letting this magic communication of humanity last far past the holiday.
Giving, loving, sharing, caring.

Let these things flow through your blood every day

Another great post MsQ. – You are my favorite writer.

Eric

Holidays, like Religion seem to be sensitive topics. I’ve learned to stay far away from both over the years. Doing so has done more harm than good. Most people want to know why you don’t participate or what you don’t celebrate rather than understand why they do it themselves.

I’ve grown to appreciate the Happy or Merry that people are sharing, giving, and caring to express. The message is still the same… Wish everyone well.

There is always going to be someone offended by something.

Hmm, is mistletoe Christian or maybe (hahahah!) pagan?

Happy Hanukkah to you!

I always have to check. Hanukkah is like broccoli to me (no offense meant at all) where I think, is it two “N’s” or 2 “K’s” or is it 2 “C’s” or 2 “L’s”

Sue: It’s too bad we have to watch it when it comes to the holidays but most people seem okay with “Merry Christmas” and receive it in the spirit that it was given. I’m glad you liked the post!