Feb 28 2007
Do Funny Girls Get the Guy?
I’m referring to funny as in ha-ha, not funny as in odd.
Now, we’ve all read how women like men who are intelligent, warm, sensitive and funny. We say we want a man with a sense of humor.
I know that I like a man who can make me laugh.
I know what you’re thinking: any man who dates Ms. Q has gotta have a sense of humor.
I once dated a guy who didn’t get sarcasm. I was constantly apologizing because I’d hurt his feelings.
How would you feel if someone you were dating asked you “Do you like talking on the phone with me?”
You reply, “Oh …NO! That’s why I call you all the time and speak with you for hours on end. It’s pure torture.”
Then he says, “I’m sorry. I had no idea. You don’t have to call me so much if you don’t want to.”
That relationship didn’t work out.
Anyway, I poured myself a glass of red wine and started to ponder. Women like men with a sense of humor but do men like women with a sense of humor?
I’m not a big follower of celebrity news but it seems to me that the male comics have groupies and fans. It seems like Funny Men are Sexy Men.
What about the female comics? Do female comics have male fans and groupies? Are funny females sexy?
Do funny females get the guy?
I do think men like women with a sense of humor.
But do you want her to laugh at your jokes or do you want to be laughing at hers?
What happens if she’s funnier than you?
So guys: you tell me.
How important is having a sense of humor in your girlfriend/wife/main squeeze to you?
Are funny women sexy?
Is your girlfriend/wife/main squeeze funnier than you?
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I don’t look for a girl with a sense of humor, I look for one with bad eye sight.
me -> “Oh yeah, I look just like Brad Pitt.”
blind gf -> “Ew, I can’t wait to meet you!”
me (to friend) -> “Remember to knock her glasses off just before I meet her…”
Too much humor in a gf can be a bad thing. I want her to laugh with me, not at me.
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I agree with you: It’s one thing to be funny and laugh together. Another thing entirely to poke fun at someone, especially at your loved one.
Not much into B.Pitt myself. More into H. Ford or Sam Neill types.
Great questions you ask, Ms. Q. Do guys like a woman with a sense of humor? Sure! Do we like a woman who is funny and tells jokes? That can be a little much, speaking for myself. I end up smiling and “laughing” just to appease her because she is probably trying very hard to make me laugh.
She doesn’t have to entertain me all the time, but just laugh with me once in a while.
Ms. Q mentions she’s more into the H. Ford types rather than B. Pitt. How ironic, as I am often mistaken for Harrison himself. Yeah, really.
Hmmmmm…I think many hot guys are superficial and go for looks more than a sense of humor. Am I wrong guys?
It sounds like the guy you described here was just a bit stiff…and not in the good way
Jake: Well, I guess I should be clearer about what I think is a funny woman. I am not thinking so much about telling jokes, more about making a man laugh. I don’t know if I’d like a man telling me jokes all the time. Witty? Yes! Jokes-a-minute? No.
If someone is trying too hard to make another person laugh she should probably quit while she’s ahead. Not that I follow my own advice. I’ve been known to try a little too hard to get someone to laugh. Or even crack a smile.
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From my own experience, hot guys do not seem to have “sense of humor” on the must-have list of female attributes. This may be because they haven’t had to develop their own sense of humor. If a friend is setting up a blind date and they tell you “he/she is really funny” or “has a great personality” you know that the person is probably not hot.
I can just hear my ex-boyfriends now: You mean I’m not hot?
hahahaa! About my ex-ex-ex-ex-who-can-even-remember boyfriend. He wasn’t stiff in the bad way (!) he was just very literal.
“He wasn’t stiff in the bad way (!) he was just very literal.”
Good choice of words
Asbolutely: funny girls make the world go ’round!
It’s mostly about how well you get along, but a compatible sense of humour is really important.
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Nice Subject. I’ve often pondered the same thing. I not only have a sense of humor, but I am also slightly raunchy, and I’m fairly sure i was deprived of some attention as a child lol. I love to make ‘em laugh, but at the same time, if you dont like my jokes, or don’t understand them, it really won’t affect my opinion of MYSELF, I’ll just not talk to you as much and we’ll probably never be friends. I don’t ever “try” to make people laugh, I just say what I feel and if it comes out sounding humorous, so be it.
I also am not a ham. It takes a while for me to be comfortable enough around people before I get all loose and crazy (unless you get me drunk).
So anywho, I have never been told I was a piece of unladylike, low-class trash just because I make jokes and like to live life to the fullest. Any man who thinks that is probably so wound up and tight assed that he eats coal and shits diamonds for a living.
Be yourself!!