QMusings

Many wish it were otherwise, probably deny it. I suspect that denying this need is a denial of self.
What?
We all have a need to love and be loved.
Yet.
You can really like yourself.
You can know that you are worthy.
You can feel that you are wonderful.
You can even love yourself.
And.
You may know yourself to be beautiful.
You may [...]

I like compliments.

What I don’t like are compliments at the expense of others.
I was told, “You’re not boring like everyone else.”
It made me take another look at the person giving me the compliment.
So…I’m not boring. Unlike everyone else.
Boring.
Uninteresting.
Not worth paying attention to.

Boring.
Things that have been called boring:

History
Math
Paint drying
Geography
Assorted places
Assorted celebrities
[...]

“I’m not a player, ” he writes.
I hadn’t even thought about this, not really, not as it pertained to my heart.

But it did get me thinking about “players” and who they are in the world of dating.
Players. A term I’ve only heard associated with men. I’m sure there are women players but there’s probably another [...]